From page 417 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous and acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing, situation. For me that wisdom is the key, i need to look carefully at what us required of me. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing, or situationsome fact of my life unacceptable to me, and i can find no serenity until i accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at. Acceptance was the answer the physician wasnt hooked, he thoughthe just prescribed drugs medically indicated for his many ailments. My hope is that these prayers will provide a framework for you to. And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. Please visit 12 step recovery prayers and quotes for many 12 step prayers god grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change.
A prayer for acceptance and guidance the serenity prayer. This verse card features a paragraph taken from the big book of alcoholics anonymous pg 417. We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it. It is referred to so often in meetings that it is almost a supplement to the first 164 pages. Jan, 2020 acceptance of alcoholism this short passage about acceptance may be one of the most quoted passages in recovery literature. Prayers of alcoholics anonymous aa from the big book 12 steps of recovery alcoholism addiction na serenity prayer. Acceptance p 449 modified from big book alanon family. Acceptance i know some people get really tired of the big book quotes. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing, or situationsome fact of my life unacceptable to me, and i can find no serenity until i accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment. I believe in the third edition it is on pae 449 and the story is called physician heal they self. The 12 step prayer book a collection of 12 step prayers and. Did you know, before the big book was published, the early members of aa studied the bible. Apr, 2014 acceptance paragraph from the big book of alcoholics anonymous welcome to the website of the book practice these principles.
The promises from pages 8384 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous if we are painstaking about this phase of our development, we will be amazed before we are halfway through. There is comfort in knowing you arent alone, that what youre feeling isnt unusual, and that there is a solution. In fact, one of the possible names for aa then was, the james club after the book of james from the bible. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing or situation some fact of my life unacceptable to me, and i can find no serenity until i accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being. Aug 24, 2014 the page 552 prayer to end resentments posted by paulcoholic on 24 august 2014, 6. The acceptance prayer in the big book of alcoholics anonymous taught me that everything happens for a reason. Never in my wildest moments had it occurred to me that i might like to be an. Aa prayers, big book prayers and inspirational recovery 12. There is a free ebook available on this spiritual website on releasing judgement forgiveness exercises for self and acceptance and inner peace. The prayer of st francis with a soothing sound for active meditation why not try it. Articles on aspiritualjourneyofhealing relevant to the serenity prayer.
When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing, or situation some fact of my life unacceptable to me, and i can find no serenity until i accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is. Big book acceptance is the answer to all of my problems today. Other signs of emotional nonacceptance may include feelings of anger or shame regarding the development of alcoholism. Breaking down the aa serenity prayer jason wahler living. Acceptance was the answer the alcoholics guide to alcoholism. The story is known by two names, doctor, alcoholic, addict or acceptance was the answer depending on which edition you bought. From page 417 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous. In 1939, the year the book called alcoholics anonymous, but commonly referred to as the big book was published. Acceptance page 417 alcoholics anonymous acceptance is the answer to all of my problems today. It is the basic text of the fellowship of alcoholics anonymous, and has helped large numbers of alcoholic men and women, young and old, recover. Acceptance is the answer to all my problemskey to all my problems today. Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those i would help of thy power, thy love, and thy way of. My favorite passage from the big book of aa acceptance. Sorting and rendering passages in the proprietary format of the 164 and more concordance does not in any way imply affiliation with or endorsement by either.
Its unfortunate for those who have taken half measures, but i would be willing to put my hand out. What i did was pray for certain things as to in my mind manipulate. Acceptance prayer acceptance quotes aa quotes book quotes quotes to live by quotable quotes qoutes sobriety quotes recovery quotes. Acceptance paragraph from the big book of alcoholics anonymous welcome to the website of the book practice these principles. Also, someone told me once the answers to all my problems are answered in the first three words on page 112 in the big book. Prayers from the big book alcoholics anonymous 3rd step prayer page 63. Resentment in big book alcoholics anonymous, 12 steps and. God, i offer myself to theeto build with me and to do with me as thou wilt. Big book personal stories part ii they stopped in time. Acceptance prayer spiritual principles of recovery. The twelve step prayers were created using the text of the big book of alcoholics anonymous. Recoveryshop has many 12 step recovery programs verse cards including quotes from alcoholics anonymous, narcotics anonymous, and many more. Sometimes referred to as the aa acceptance prayer, the serenity prayer is usually recited at the beginning of almost all 12step group meetings, and, at many. Much has been written about working the steps and staying sober.
I cant think of the name of the story but it has acceptance in it. The acceptance prayer posted on march 2, 2014 in the book, alcoholics anonymous, page 449, there is a prayer in the middle of the page, first new paragraph. For all the prayers that are fit to print,the big book. The acceptance prayer esselman counseling services. Mar 02, 2014 in the book, alcoholics anonymous, page 449, there is a prayer in the middle of the page, first new paragraph. Its words and interpretations are left up to the reader to use as they choose. Prayers from the big book of alcoholics anonymous big book. My hope is that these prayers will provide a framework for you to develop your own or expand on the wording below. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing, or situation some fact of my life unacceptable to me, and i can find no serenity until i accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to. The free book outlines a powerful technique i developed to help me find peace and acceptance in difficult situations, receive guidance and forgive my way out. On the flip side, emotional nonacceptance of alcoholism, as supported by denial, guilt, fighting against, or escaping the illness, puts a person at a high risk of relapse, even if a person can rationally accept the disease. The 12 step prayer book a collection of 12 step prayers. The serenity prayer in 12step recovery verywell mind. Take a deep breath and step forward into the radical realm of pinpoint praying.
Acceptance prayer printable serenity prayer aa morning prayer. Alcoholics anonymous quotes by alcoholics anonymous. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing or situation some fact of my life unacceptable to me, and i can find no serenity until i accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment. Acceptance the big book edition, pg 417 acceptance prayer, acceptance quotes. God, grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can, and the wisdom to know the difference. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing or situation some fact of my life unacceptable to me, and i can find no serenity until i accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is. The role of acceptance in coping with alcohol addiction. In the book, alcoholics anonymous, page 449, there is a prayer in the middle of the page, first new paragraph.
From that moment on, i have not had a single compulsion to drink. The wisdom from the big book isnt limited to 10 quotes. This is the fourth edition of the big book, the basic text for alcoholics anonymous. When i stopped living in the problem and began living in the answer, the problem went away. Morning in thinking about our day, we ask god for inspiration, an intuitive thought or decision. Bookmarks and wallet cards can be custom made with your logo or personalbusiness information printed on the back before laminating. Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those i would help of thy power, thy love and thy way of life. It is the basic text of the fellowship of alcoholics anonymous, and has helped large numbers of alcoholic men and women, young and old, recover as of december 2009, 30,664,881 copies of the big book have been sold or otherwise. When i stopped living in the problem and began living in the. When i opened it to page 112 and read those three words, i said to myself, well, better stop using it for a coaster.
It can be small to big things whether its silly or serious. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing or situation some fact of my life unacceptable to me and i can find no serenity until i accept that person, place, thing or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be. Prayers from the big book alcoholics anonymous 3rd step prayerpage 63. For all the prayers that are fit to print,the big book index. In 1939, the year the book called alcoholics anonymous, but commonly referred to as the. For me this goes along with the serenity prayer so that i get the right balance between acceptance and action. The third step prayer big book alcoholics anonymous. Perhaps one of the best short passages on acceptance comes from the big book of alcoholics anonymous.
Acceptance prayer printable serenity prayer aa morning. Understand that this index is meant to be for reference only. The acceptance prayer in the book, alcoholics anonymous, page 449, there is a prayer in the middle of the page, first new paragraph. When i stopped living in the problem and began living in. This book shows believers how to dramatically change their prayer lives in ten different areas of life. Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those i would help of thy power, thy love and thy way of. Its from the 4th edition of alcoholics anonymous or the big book as it is widely known. When i am distrubed, it is because i find some person, place, thing or situation some facet of my life unacceptable to, and i can find no serenity until i accept that person, place, thing or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment. I graduated narrowly and took a job at a local garage. This excerpt above is from a share or a personal story at the back of the big book. For your information below is a list of printable documents to use in your aa meetings. The page 552 prayer to end resentments sober catholic. We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness.
The big book has given me that comfort and the push to move forward. Alcoholics anonymous quotes showing of 127 and acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. The page 552 prayer to end resentments posted by paulcoholic on 24 august 2014, 6. My sponsor suggested i type it up and put it somewhere in the house where i see it all the time. Big book prayers prayers from the big book of alcoholics anonymous i earnestly advise every alcoholic to read this book through, and though perhaps he came to scoff, he may remain to pray. Aa anonymity statement anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our traditions. When i am disturbed, it is because i find some person, place, thing, situation some fact of my life unacceptable to me, and i can find no serenity until i accept that person, place, thing, or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment. Relieve me of the bondage of self, that i may better do thy will. In the bb 4th addition it is the same story but they changed the name and its on page 417. Since the first edition appeared, in 1939, it has helped millions of men and women recover from alcoholism. Acceptance in big book alcoholics anonymous, 12 steps and. Prayers from the big book of alcoholics anonymous big.
Miracles in progress 12 step recovery forums alanon family group alanon family group acceptance p 449 modified from big book start a new topic reply post info. Take your inspiration with you each day with the aa acceptance verse card. The serenity prayer reminds us that acceptance is the key to happiness. Mar 18, 2012 from page 417 of the big book of alcoholics anonymous and acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. Change requires courage because it is taking a step into the. Morning before we begin our day, we ask god to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from selfpity, dishonest or selfseeking motives. Mindfulness and acceptance in alcoholics anonymous. Known also as the acceptance prayer aa morning prayer,that i may be reasonably happy in this life and supremely happy with him forever in the next. Acceptance of alcoholism this short passage about acceptance may be one of the most quoted passages in recovery literature. The text used to develop the prayers are shown at the end of the prayer in parenthesis. Accept the things i cannot change, courage to change the things i can, wisdom to know the difference. Sep 01, 2016 acceptance p 449 modified from big book. When things have gone from bad to curse and you need to speak to god because your in a lurch, your throat has a lump and the words get stuck, try the big book prayer index to get you over the hump. As you breathe in that rich aroma of your morning coffee, be reminded that acceptance is the answer to all your problems with the acceptance prayer from the big book of alcoholics anonymous, page 417.